Date: Wed, 9 Feb
2000 01:00
From: [email protected] (Jo)
Did anyone see Judge Judy
Tuesday night? I am livid about her reaction to the plaintiff!
This woman takes 20-25 Vicodins a month and Judge Judy said that she was
too drugged up to know what was going on. This jerk that took this
lady for a small amount of money, was let off. Judge Judy was more
concerned about the woman's prescription pain meds. She asked the
woman if she took pain pills everyday. The woman said "No."
Judy screamed at her, saying "If you get 25 a month, then you must be taking
them almost everyday, considering there are only 30 days in the month!"
DAH, maybe on her painful
days she takes 4-6 and then doesn't take them for days in a row.
She treated this woman like a drug addict. I can only imagine what
she would say to me! I take much more than 20-25 pills a month.
Does this mean if someone does an injustice to me, I would not have any
rights? I think the plaintiff was so stunned she couldn't think fast
enough to defend herself. She shouldn't have had to. She did
tell her that she is on the pain meds for an injury from previous domestic
violence. Didn't matter to Judy. So many people watch that
show and she just reinforced their backward thinking, that there is never
any excuse to take pain meds everyday.
I for one am writing a letter
to Judge Judy to explain that many people NEED pain meds everyday and that
does not make them a "bad" person or a drug addict. Judge Judy has
changed this past year. She went from being funny to just being plain
mean. I was her number one fan, but her name calling, her telling
people to shut-up and her one way thinking has left me cold. Sorry
if I have offended any of her fans out there, but this was wrong.
The plaintiffs prescribed medication should have had nothing to do with
this case. If someone saw this show, and you think I missed a point,
please let me know.
Date: Wed, 09 Feb 2000 03:25
From: Bob [email protected]
I agree 100% -- I saw that
show also and was insulted. This would be a great opportunity for
ASAP as a whole (with Skip's permission of course) to fight back where
there would be media coverage. Whatcha all think????
Date: Wed, 9 Feb 2000 07:18
From: (name not listed yet,
pending permission)
Jo,
I AGREE WITH YOU WHOLE HEARTEDLY!!!!!!!
I did see that and felt just like you. Heck, I take 50 pills a day.
I wonder what she would have thought of me, yet my thinking is clear, and
I know when I have been violated, etc. This was totally unfair, and
I always loved to watch Judge Judy, like you I am going to write her also.
So sad how we constantly get humiliated for having pain, glad you brought
this up!!!!!!! Take care and GOD BLESS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Date: Wed, 9 Feb 2000 08:19
Mary Webb [email protected]
Hi Skip,
I too was absolutely livid
about the Judge Judy show that aired Tuesday, Feb. 9, 2000. She has
no insight into folks with chronic pain, or for that matter, folks who
take pain meds after surgery or a car accident like the girl on her show.
I watch her show faithfully everyday and usually go along with her judgments,
but last night she truly showed her stupidity and her lack of compassion.
Skip, please let me know how we can write a letter and voice our complaints
and maybe teach her about chronic pain.
Thanks in Washington.
From: (name withheld by request)
Date: Tues, 8 Feb 2000 22:06
YES, I did see it and YES
I was very angry... I have always liked Judge Judy as well, but she is
WAY out of line in a lot of ways. First, what medications she took
PRIOR to this incident is irrelevant, and this young lady did NOT have
to tell her what she took, in my opinion. I was furious at her reaction!
God Forbid any chronic pain patient needs her help someday!
Date: Thu, 10 Feb 2000 14:50
From: Sue Moskowitz [email protected]
I am writing to express my
disgust at comments made by Judge Judy about a woman who as taking pain
medication. here are millions of us in this country who must take
opiate edication for chronic pain conditions. How dare that woman
with no medical knowledge ut down a woman who is in pain? 28 vicodin
per month is nothing... As a matter of fact, that is much less than a normal
weekly dose for someone in chronic pain. I will be participating
in a boycott of Judge Judy's sponsors until she apologizes publicly for
humiliating millions of law-abiding Americans who are taking opiate-based
medications to survive from daily debilitating pain. We struggle
constantly to obtain the pain relief that we need, we don't need a national
television celebrity telling us that we are "stoned."
Date: Thu, 10 Feb 2000 14:50
From: Judith L. Tymec [email protected]
Skip, I am sending you a
copy of the letter I have sent to many news agencies, both local and national,
in an effort to bring some publicity to our pain situation. Here
it is:
To Whom It May Concern:
My name is Judi and I am a chronic pain patient in Chicago. I am
writing to you because I am tired of being discriminated against by doctors,
pharmacies, and other medical and non-medical people. Many in my
shoes have committed suicide. Thank God I have not gotten to that
point, but after dealing with this issue for over many years I could see
how many have come to this point.
The last straw for me was
the other day, I was watching Judge Judy berate a woman for taking Vicodin
without once asking her why she was taking the medication and then cut
the lady's judgement in half (in my opinion) only because she was taking
this med. Now I know her show is purely for entertainment, but when
she makes this pain medication an issue it creates a horrific nightmare
for those of us dealing with this on a daily basis.
I have been yelled at by
pharmacists, wrongly been accused of being an addict (I have records to
prove I'm not) by some doctors, and almost shamed into isolating myself
in my home due to my medical problems, and anyone who says the war on drugs
is only on the streets has never had to try to get their pain under control,
because even with a wonderful doctor's help I still have to fight the stigma
of being on strong pain medication. I am on a medication called Kadian,
which is time released Morphine, and I still hold down a wonderful part
time job, am on PTA, and coach an academic team for my nine year old son.
I am far from being addicted,
but the pain meds I am on have allowed me to live, not hole up in a dark
room in pain and tears. I and the other million people in pain would
like you to look into our plight and please see whether you could help
shed some light on our life threatening issues. I have many facts
and people willing to help. We need to be heard, or I am afraid others
may follow the road to suicide. Thank you for your time and in advance
for your efforts to bring this subject to the public.